Start small and simple: a bullet, a mini wand or a finger vibe. Begin on the lowest setting, explore outside before inside, and add a little water-based lube. Once you know what you like, the rest of the collection makes a lot more sense.

Something small and simple with one button, like Little Buddy, or Petite Plug for anal.

No. Charge it, press the button, and start on the lowest setting.

Best Sellers, or pick by spot, by what it does or by who it’s for from the menu.

Blue Belle, Midnight Magic, Little Buddy, In a Flap and Butterfly Love lead the list, based on real orders.

Many are. Little Buddy and Heartfelt are small and simple to start with.

They’re made from phthalate and latex free materials.

Start with who it’s for, then pick something small and simple if you’re not sure.

A small bullet or a slim G-spot vibe, like Little Buddy or Sapphire G.

A stroker like Pocket Pleaser, or an erection ring set.

A remote-control egg like Egg Me On. One person wears it, the other runs it.

Vibration is a buzz. Thrusting moves in and out on its own, closer to penetration. Neither is better. It depends on what you like.

It moves in and out by itself while it vibrates. Bunny Thruster thrusts, rotates and vibrates at once.

It hits the same spot in quick, separate beats. In a Flap swings a flapper, and Triple Aces adds a tapping stimulator.

Licking and suction toys. Tongue Teaser flicks like a tongue, and Sure Thing pulses air.

A toy with a soft, flexible tip that flicks back and forth, like Tongue Teaser. Luna Bunny and Bunny Thruster flick their ears, and Tentacle Tickler has six floppy tentacles.

They pulse air around the clit instead of touching it directly. Vibration buzzes against the skin; suction feels closer to oral. Sure Thing does both.

A toy that reaches two spots at once, usually the G-spot and clit, often with two motors.

It adds a third point, usually flexible anal beads. Triple Tickle, Game On and Triple Aces all do this.

Some, like Triple Aces and Blue Belle. The product page tells you.

Go slow and use far more lube than you think you need. Start with a small, tapered plug with a flared base, like Petite Plug or the Intro to Plugs set. Relax, breathe, and stop if anything hurts.

A flared base or ring keeps the toy from going too far. Only use toys made for anal play.

P-spot Trainer is curved to reach it. Vibrating plugs work well too.

Warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner after every use. Dry it completely and store it somewhere clean, away from other toys.

Rinse with warm water and mild soap, turn it inside out if it opens, and let it air dry completely.

Water-based. It works with every material and rinses off easily. Silicone lube can wear down silicone toys over time.

Most SELOPA toys charge by USB and the cable comes in the box. Charge fully before first use, and top up when the light tells you to.

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